Wear the Dress Socks

dress socksLast week my three-year-old proudly showed me the new socks he’d worn to bed the night before.  Grey and red pirate socks, they are one pair of a two-pack we bought the previous day at the mall.  The other new pair is a grey and red plaid Christmas pattern, and has more of a ‘dressy’ look to it.

“Daddy wouldn’t let me wear the Christmas socks to bed, he said they were too dressy,” my son told me.  Now this isn’t meant to call out my husband and his parenting choices, as he is an incredible father and amazes me daily with his patience and kindness; but rather, this conversation made me pause and take a look at my own arbitrary rules and standards.  I have heard myself say things like “put that shirt back in your closet, it’s for special occasions” or “don’t use the sparkly stickers, we’ll save those”.  Save them for what?  For a day other than today?  Why not bring simple pleasures into our day to day life?  And what better way to bring bits of effortless joy and innocent happiness than using nice shirts, sparkly stickers, and dress socks.

So use your china for pizza night.  Use your good conditioner daily.  Take the cushion covers off your sofa and the protective liners off your car’s floor mats.  Eat the richest cheesecake.  Grind the best coffee beans.  Open the good beer.

Don’t make home improvements to your house so you can sell it, but make home improvements so you can enjoy it.  Use your finest napkins.  Wear your softest sweater.  Pull out your best duvet.  Throw on your new running shoes.  Write on your fancy stationary with your special pen.

And that bottle of red wine that you’ve been saving for a special occasion?  Open it tonight and have a glass.  Celebrate a Tuesday.  Oh, and those new wineglasses in the back of your cupboard?  Use them too.

And wear the dress socks.


The Magic of Christmas through the Magic of Children

The magic of Christmas is in full swing around our house.

With a son who’s nearly four, and a nine-month-old baby girl who gets excited about everything, we’ve been in festive-mode for weeks.  Our lights are up.  Our cookies are baked.  Our Santa letters are written.  Our presents are bought and wrapped.  And next weekend, we’ll make the trek to a tree farm to cut down our own tree, a la Chevy Chase’s ‘Christmas vacation‘.  I’ve always loved the holiday season, and my Christmas memories from childhood involve the warmth of my parent’s house, the twinkle of lights on the tree, the excitement of family get-togethers, and the anticipation of Santa’s arrival.

These days, I’m in the business of making holiday memories for my children, while cherishing moments that pass all too quickly.  There is such a small window of time when children are old enough to ‘get’ the idea of Santa, and yet young enough to believe.  We’re talking six or seven years- maybe eight if you’re lucky.

That’s only six or seven Christmases of innocent, curious questions:

  • Where will Santa park his sleigh?
  • How will Santa get in if we don’t have a chimney?
  • Will his gloves make his hands too slippery to open the front door?
  • Do reindeer like to eat carrots?
  • How many sleeps until Christmas?

That’s only six or seven Christmases for ‘Mall Santa’ photos:

Christmas 2009.  Not a fan.

Christmas 2009: Not a fan.

Christmas 2010.  Not a fan.

Christmas 2010: Still not a fan.

Christmas 2011.  Coming around...

Christmas 2011: Coming around to the idea of Santa…

Christmas 2012.  An old pro showing his sister how it's done!

Christmas 2012: An old pro showing his sister how it’s done!

That’s only six or seven Christmases of whole-hearted enthusiasm for our family’s Christmas traditions:

We’re right in the thick of it.  So for these six or seven Christmases, I’m soaking up as much magic as I can.  Because these two little bugs make me a believer.

kids Sarah Martin

Merry Christmas!


Wheat-free Recipes? Yes, please!

I changed my diet to be wheat-free about seven months ago, and it’s become my ‘new normal’.  Being a bread/bagels/cereal/pasta lover, that’s a big shift in my perspective, and I’m surprised at how easy it’s been and how much better I feel.  In an effort to avoid feeling deprived of the foods I love, I use wheat-free alternatives for my ‘go-to’ favorites: oatmeal, spaghetti, pizza, and muffins.  Here are some of my tried-and-true recipes:

BREAKFAST:

Seed ‘Oatmeal’ with berries

Seed ‘Oatmeal’ with berries

Soak a variety of seeds (this pic shows chia seeds, hemp hearts, and ground flaxseed; I am a regular at the Bulk Barn!) overnight in almond milk.  In the morning, stir seeds up and microwave for 60-90 seconds to warm them up.  Top with whatever you like!  I usually use cinnamon, a bit of honey, berries, and almond milk.  Other common breakfasts at our house include omelettes loaded with veggies, protein/fruit smoothies, and plain Greek yogurt with fruit.

LUNCH:

Bento-box style: chicken, cheese, avocado, peppers, tomatoes, and carrots

Bento-box style lunch

Lunch is almost always an assortment of finger-foods or leftovers these days- a big change from regular sandwich-lunches of days past.  Now it’s simple foods that are easy to prepare, and provide the ability for little hands to pick and choose.

DINNER (here’s TWO of my favorites):

Hybrid pizza

Hybrid Pizza 

Ingredients Needed:
8 oz (weight; about 2 cups) shredded mozzarella cheese
2 eggs, beaten
2 Tbsp ground flaxseed
2 Tbsp coconut flour
1/2 tsp baking powder
1/2 tsp garlic powder (optional)
Sauce, cheese, and toppings of your choice

Directions:  Preheat oven to 350F.  Combine all ingredients in a medium bowl.  Mound the cheese mixture on a baking sheet lined with greased parchment paper. Using damp hands, spread it out into a disc about 1/4″ thick.  Bake for 30-45 minutes, flipping it over at the 20-25min mark (TIP: do not undercook before flipping the crust over or the uncooked cheese will stick to your parchment paper; cook for 20-25 mins before flipping over, and the other side will only take 10-15mins to cook).  Spread on your sauce, cheese, and toppings and broil for 2-3 minutes.

Spaghetti Squash with Chicken, Mushrooms, and Peppers in Marinara Sauce

Spaghetti squash

This one is super easy!  Cut a spaghetti squash in half lengthwise (TIP: you can microwave the whole squash for a few minutes to soften it up before cutting), place rind-side up on a greased baking sheet, and bake at 375F for 30-40mins.  Using a fork, ‘comb’ the inside of the squash and it will quickly peel into spaghetti-shaped strands (the texture is very similar to al dente pasta).  Top with your choice of sauce- my personal favorite is chicken, onions, mushrooms, and peppers, in a spicy marinara sauce.

SNACK/TREAT:

Cinnamon swirl muffins

Cinnamon Swirl Muffins

Ingredients Needed:
2.5 cups almond flour
1 Tbsp coconut flour
1 tsp cinnamon
1/2 tsp baking soda
1/4 tsp salt
2 eggs
1/2 cup plus 1 Tbsp coconut milk
1/2 cup honey
Topping Ingredients:
2 Tbsp honey
1 Tbsp cinnamon
1 Tbsp melted coconut oil
Directions: Preheat oven to 325F.  Mix together all the dry batter ingredients.  Add the wet batter ingredients and mix well.  Pour batter evenly into a muffin tin.  Mix all the topping ingredients in a separate bowl, and drizzle over the muffins.  Bake for 20-25 mins or until golden brown.
Other common snack ideas are veggies/hummus, boiled eggs, or a shaker of protein powder and water.
I’d love to hear about your wheat-free recipe successes too!  
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