A Gift of Imagination

We got a special delivery to our backyard a few weeks ago.  Tucked into the wooded trails at the bottom of our hill, now lies a quaint little 7’x7′ wooden playhouse, complete with a front porch, two screened-in windows, and set of bunk-beds.  To say that my children love it would be an understatement.

They are captivated by the sense of independence it brings, its magic of make-believe, its let’s-create-our-own-world environment.  We’ve gathered up some blankets and pillows, found a table and chairs, and bought a broom and a fly-swatter.  It’s become a little house where adults aren’t allowed and children’s imaginations can grow.  It’s theirs.  All theirs.  The smell of sawdust and shadows of tree branches only add to its intrigue and memory-making potential.

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This playhouse is a bit of a family tradition for me.  You see, my grandparents gifted a playhouse to my brother and I when we were very young.  It was literally a miniature house, with cupboards and a sink, a rain-echoing roof, and a linoleum floor.  And we loved it.  Hours upon hours were spent inside, in all kinds of weather, while we let our imaginations run wild and our dreams set foot.  We read books, we had sleepovers, we swept and mopped and washed and dusted.  It was a little piece of the adult world shrunk down to fit a child.  And my parents have now gifted a playhouse to my children; a gift of fantasy, of resourcefulness, of creativity.  A gift of imagination.  IMG_1983

When I see my kids playing in there, I can still hear those creaky old bunk-bed springs, still feel the coziness, still smell the stale air, and still see the little girl who was given a place to dream big.

 

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Here we go again

Remember how my two-year-old daughter was diagnosed with amblyopia and got glasses this past Spring?  Remember how I made her a book to help her understand?

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I’m happy to report than her vision has improved from only 20/80 to nearly 20/30 in just three short months!  And her 3 hrs/day of eye-patching has been a non-issue too; from fishing to golfing to going for walks, if it happens first thing in the morning, she does it with an eye patch and she doesn’t complain.

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She’s a tough kid whose resiliency continues to surprise me.  Thank you for your messages of support, your questions of concern, and your genuine interest in her well-being.

But here we go again.  This time it’s my five-year-old son.  We were warned back in April that his vision showed some concerns and he may require glasses in the future.  So here we are.  But no patching for him, much to his chagrin.  “Please mom, can I wear a patch too?” he says.  Sorry buddy, the patches are just for your sister.  But the Ninja Turtles glasses?  They’re all yours.

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And you get your own book too.

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“Do you Adjust Children?”

***This was originally written as a Guest Blog post for Momstown.ca.***

I got asked this question at the gym the other day.  Someone I barely knew, stopped me mid-warmup to ask, “you’re a chiropractor, right?  Do you adjust children?”  And I guess that’s a fair question.  But my “yes I am and yes I do” response was met with a skeptical “wow, I can’t believe that people do that.”  Hmmmm, now how to respond?

I guess I could’ve said that chiropractors are neuro-musculoskeletal (NMSK) specialists; NMSK means nerves, muscles, and joints.  That we’re primary healthcare providers.  That we can diagnose.  That we’ve got 7+ years of post-secondary education.  But that’s too “wordy” for casual conversation.

I could’ve said that I have two young children and regularly check their spines and adjust them as necessary.  Or that they both received their first adjustments within hours of their births.  Or that my son’s neck was so restricted that he would only nurse on one side pre-adjustment.  Or that a lower back/pelvic adjustment is the best laxative I’ve found for them.  Or that my kids “play chiropractor.”  Nah, too “mommy.”

I could’ve said that the birth process is pretty intense and can be traumatic on tiny spines.  I could’ve said that I’ve seen incredible results with colic, constipation, and congenital torticollis in my practice.  I could’ve said that children respond remarkably well and exceptionally fast to treatment.  I could’ve said that we get our children’s teeth, eyes, and ears checked, so why not their spines too?  No, too “clinical”.

I could’ve said that I’ve taken extensive post-graduate studies in pediatric care.  Or that the research supports chiropractic treatment in the pediatric population.  Or that I am thoroughly confident in the safety of everything I do and I must “first, do no harm”.  Nope, too “academic”.

Instead, I said “yes, people do that.  We all do what we think is best for our children.”  Then I finished my workout….. and went home to adjust my kids.

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